July 07, 2026

The doors to the world of the wild Self are few but precious few. If you have a deep scar, that is a door, if you have an old, old story, that is a door.

Estés wrote this in the early 1990s, drawing on decades of work as a Jungian analyst and cantadora, a keeper of old stories in her Mexican and Hungarian family traditions. She was writing for women who had been taught to distrust their own instincts and had lost contact with the deeper, wilder parts of themselves. The passage comes from her argument that our wounds and our histories are not obstacles to knowing ourselves but actual entry points. It speaks to wonder and curiosity because it reframes the things we most want to skip over as the exact places worth investigating.