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Daily self-examination is the Stoic habit of reviewing your own conduct at the close of each day, as a fair and friendly judge might — noting what you did well, what you did poorly, and what you left undone. The Stoics did not invent the practice; they took it in part from the Pythagoreans, and Seneca describes it with unusual warmth. Every night, he tells us, when the light was put out and the house had fallen silent, he would examine the whole of his day and hold his own actions up to account, hiding nothing and passing over nothing. And because he had settled his accounts with himself, he slept the sleep of a mind at peace.
The tone Seneca sets is essential and easy to get wrong. This is an audit, not a flogging. The point is not to lie awake in guilt cataloguing failures, but to look honestly at the day and ask the questions a good friend or wise teacher would ask: Where did I do well today? Where did I fall short? What could I have done differently, and how will I do it tomorrow? The aim is improvement, not punishment. Seneca even frames his own self-examination as a court in which he is at once the accused and a lenient judge — one who names the fault plainly and then lets it go, having learned from it.
The value of the practice is that character is not built by accident. Left unexamined, the days blur past, the same small failings repeat, and we drift rather than grow. A brief nightly reckoning turns living into learning. Each fault noticed without excuse is less likely to be repeated; each thing done well is quietly reinforced; and the very habit of watching your own conduct makes you more deliberate in the moment, because you know the day will be reviewed. Marcus Aurelius's entire Meditations can be read as a version of this: a private notebook of a man correcting and reminding himself, over and over, of the person he meant to be.
In practice it takes only a few minutes. At the end of the day, replay it honestly. Name one or two things you handled well and let yourself register them. Name where you slipped — the sharp word, the avoided task, the small dishonesty — without either excusing it or dwelling on it. Then decide, concretely, how tomorrow will be different, and set it down. Repeated nightly, this steady, gentle accounting is how a character gets built on purpose rather than by chance.